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Throwing The Bouquet In The Name Of Love

If you know anything about me, I’m far from the trad wife but I am a lover girl through and through. When I began to feel the desire to get married, it was during a time when a former friend was disposing of her marriage because she craved newness. It was a challenging time for…

Tales Of An Unbothered Bride : Weeding Out What Truly Matters

As a 2025 bride that began her planning process as of a few months ago, I’m coming to terms with the reality of planning and having your wedding the same year. I recently spoke to 2026 brides who are planning for their 2026 wedding ceremony and wedding planning seems a bit intense generally. As a…

Unfinished Business: Within The Mind

This morning I woke up and my body felt off. Granted, my period should be here any day now, but I began thinking about what can possibly be wrong. My boyfriend asked me, β€œWhat triggered this sadness?” and I immediately said that I felt like a failure. Mind you, I felt amazing yesterday. But today…

The Island to Bad Gyal Pipeline | Breaking Generational Curses In Love

On a small island with 365 beaches, beautiful brown people, and families bound by generational curses, my story began. My parents often gloss over the childhood experiences that shaped them, leaving me to piece together their truths as I’ve grown older. What they don’t realize is that in avoiding the past, they contribute even more…

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About Me

Hi, I’m Jestine. I’ve created a blog to express my various experiences defining my own sense of femininity. My life goal is to be able to teach and share my insight on love, light, and sometimes the dark side of obtaining inner strength as a woman. We’re all sent here to regain our power after unfortunate events by constantly testing the narrative and thinking outside the box. Hopefully, you’ll be able to learn something from the stories that I share throughout this journey. If you are a warrior @ heart with lot’s of love to give but you’re trying to find a place to put it, DeFine Feminine is the place to be!

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