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Throwing The Bouquet In The Name Of Love
If you know anything about me, Iβm far from the trad wife but I am a lover girl through and through. When I began to feel the desire to get married, it was during a time when a former friend was disposing of her marriage because she craved newness. It was a challenging time forβ¦
Tales Of An Unbothered Bride : Weeding Out What Truly Matters
As a 2025 bride that began her planning process as of a few months ago, Iβm coming to terms with the reality of planning and having your wedding the same year. I recently spoke to 2026 brides who are planning for their 2026 wedding ceremony and wedding planning seems a bit intense generally. As aβ¦
Unfinished Business: Within The Mind
This morning I woke up and my body felt off. Granted, my period should be here any day now, but I began thinking about what can possibly be wrong. My boyfriend asked me, βWhat triggered this sadness?β and I immediately said that I felt like a failure. Mind you, I felt amazing yesterday. But todayβ¦
The Island to Bad Gyal Pipeline | Breaking Generational Curses In Love
On a small island with 365 beaches, beautiful brown people, and families bound by generational curses, my story began. My parents often gloss over the childhood experiences that shaped them, leaving me to piece together their truths as Iβve grown older. What they donβt realize is that in avoiding the past, they contribute even moreβ¦
Needling the loose ends of your 20s: Thee Only βChildβ
If youβre meeting me for the very first time, Hi, Iβm Jestine and I grew up as an only child. I tell everyone I know because wtf is this and why is this a thing? I could have the birds and bees conversation but thatβs mad awkward so letβs talk about something less cringe like,β¦
A Deep Dive Into A Leo Moonβs Mind : Defining HERStory
Leo Moons & Their Chaotic Life, I mean Light * As a Leo moon, we take on multiple roles in this world but one of them is to shine bright like a diamond. Leos are known as the brave, loyal, and confident individual in the zodiac. If you have a Leo woman in your life,β¦
The Monster Within: Captain America The Brave New World
This weekend, I indulged in some nerdy fun and finally went to see Captain America with my boyfriend. Despite the racist critics who tried to undermine Anthony Mackie in this role, I was thoroughly moved by how well he carried the mantle. His wit and heroic presence made the film both inspiring and thought-provoking. Itβ¦
My Boss Babe Evolution π€
Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to. I remember having to drop out of college because I didnβt have the confidence to seek other options at the time. I heavily relied on my mom to make decisions even if they were detrimental to my success. This was the first timeβ¦
Redirection is Protection: Embracing Solitude, Loss & Art
Sitting in silence, self-reflecting without disruption, curating blog posts, dancing for hours, or gradually sipping tea as it coolsβthese small moments of solitude are my lore. They always have been. Growing up as an only child, I spent a lot of time in my own world, whether by choice or consequence. Solitude was both myβ¦
Defining What Home Is + Owning My Reality
As a kid, we are placed in environments that can make or break us even in silence. Often adults overlook the pain and suffering the youth faces because they’re often too caught up in paying bills and trying to find love themselves. But they forget how much we need love and what we require canβ¦
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