Harlem Season 3: A Love Letter to Black Sisterhood and Messy Growth

If you havenโ€™t heard of Harlem, you might want to re-evaluate your streaming choices. This Prime Video series, centered around four Black women living inโ€”you guessed itโ€”Harlem, New York, has been a breath of fresh air in the realm of modern television. As someone who was born and raised in the city, seeing a show set in Harlem with a predominantly Black cast? Thatโ€™s a win in itself. Unfortunately, season three is also its last (cue dramatic sigh), so we need to talk about it while we still can.

Why do so many Black-led shows get canceled? The unfortunate reality is that networks either feel like our stories have hit their peak, or we, as an audience, donโ€™t engage enough to keep them alive. Weโ€™ll debate Baddies for hours, but when it comes to well-written, dynamic Black shows, the discussion is often minimal. So letโ€™s give Harlem its flowers.

The Beauty of Harlem

At its core, Harlem is reminiscent of Girlfriends and Insecureโ€”a beautifully shot, well-written show about Black women navigating career, friendship, and love. The cinematography is top-tier, the writing is intentional, and most importantly, it portrays Black women as successful and multifaceted.

Too often, Black women in media are stuck in the โ€œstruggle loveโ€ or โ€œcanโ€™t-get-it-togetherโ€ archetype. If weโ€™re broke, weโ€™re broke-broke. If weโ€™re unlucky in love, weโ€™re unlucky-unlucky. But in Harlem, while the characters experience struggles, they also winโ€”because letโ€™s be real, we have to win somewhere. Every character has a passion, a drive, and a sense of purpose, and thatโ€™s what makes the show so engaging.

Now, letโ€™s talk about these charactersโ€”some I adore, some I tolerate, and one in particular (side-eyes Ian) who needs to exit stage left.

Quinn: The Hopeless Romantic in Designer Heels

Quinn (played by Grace Byers) is the Charlotte York of Harlemโ€”poised, well-dressed, and hopelessly romantic. Coming from a Caribbean-American background, Quinn is a fashion designer who dabbles in styling this season. I love her because she represents the duality of being the โ€œgood girlโ€ with a little edge.

Sheโ€™s explored different relationships, both with men and women, and while sheโ€™s still figuring things out, she does it with grace (pun intended). Sheโ€™s that friend who always wants love but never settles for less than she deservesโ€”well, almost never.

Camille: Book Smart but Life Dumb

Megan Goodโ€™s Camille is an anthropologist and the intellectual of the group. Sheโ€™s poetic, ambitious, and articulateโ€”to the point where itโ€™s almost self-destructive. Camille can rationalize anything, even when itโ€™s completely irrational.

Her biggest flaw? She cannot, for the life of her, let go of her ex, Ian. Heโ€™s played her like a worn-out record, but she keeps pressing replay. And then thereโ€™s her motherโ€”emotionally unavailable, self-involved, and about as comforting as a wooden chair. Camilleโ€™s real family is her friends, who give her the love and guidance her mother doesnโ€™t.

Ian: The Human Red Flag

Speaking of Ian (played by Tyler Lepley), heโ€™s Harlemโ€™s version of Mr. Bigโ€”but worse. He always has a side chick, an excuse, and a fresh set of lies. He and Camille have history, but history doesnโ€™t mean destiny, and Harlem proves that.

This season, Camille gets her grand finale momentโ€”the one where reality finally slaps her in the face. She ends up pregnant with Ianโ€™s baby (plot twist: he supposedly has trouble having kids), and she has to decide if sheโ€™s willing to struggle as a single mother. The show doesnโ€™t sugarcoat the conversation about motherhoodโ€”it highlights that choosing yourself isnโ€™t selfish, itโ€™s survival.

Ty: The Cool-But-Complicated One

Ty (played by Jerrie Johnson) is the boss chickโ€”tall, fine, successful, and dominant. But beneath the tailored suits and swag, sheโ€™s got layers of vulnerability. Society often paints stud women as invincible, but Harlem lets us see Tyโ€™s cracks.

Sheโ€™s hypersexual, emotionally avoidant, and constantly running from intimacy, but her relationships shine a light on who she really is. I love that the show humanizes her beyond the โ€œcool, bulletproof lesbianโ€ trope.

Angie: The Chaotic Star

Angie (played by Shoniqua Shandai) is a force. Sheโ€™s loud, bold, and never apologetic. Unlike the rest of the group, her life is a hot messโ€”but she owns it. Sheโ€™s the struggling artist, the dreamer, the friend who never sugarcoats anything.

Angie isnโ€™t perfect, but sheโ€™s confident, and sometimes, thatโ€™s enough. Watching her navigate career ups and downs while keeping her self-worth intact is inspiring (and hilarious).

Why Harlem Matters

What makes Harlem special is its light-hearted yet real approach to Black womanhood. Unlike Insecure, where friendships had deep cracks and unresolved tension, Harlem keeps the friend group solid. Thereโ€™s no unnecessary betrayal, no forced dramaโ€”just women supporting each other through lifeโ€™s chaos.

Itโ€™s refreshing. Itโ€™s relatable. And itโ€™s needed.

We Need to Support Black Shows

If you loved Harlem, scream about it. Too often, Black shows get canceled because they donโ€™t get the engagement they deserve. Meanwhile, mediocre reality shows get multiple seasons. (No shadeโ€ฆ but all shade.)

So letโ€™s celebrate Harlem while we can, rewatch it, talk about it, and demand more shows like it. Because Black women deserve to see themselves winningโ€”on and off the screen.

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